Caleb in our lives: Week 11

We've been reflecting on the last year, dreaming about what comes next, and getting really excited for where God will take us in the future! There has never been a more exhilarating stage in life than this: nearly 4 years of marriage under our belts, brand new parents, wonderful little babyman, foreign country adventures, new experiences at every turn!

Christmas, our way

We want to make our own Christmas Traditions, unfortunately I have a terrible memory so I'm going to write it out here and hopefully reference it next year as well.

            Eve:
the big celebration day- dress nice, take pictures, cook up a storm
. bake Christmas cookies
. make Gingerbread house
. cook a nice dinner
. attend a Christmas Eve service
. give a gift - Christmas jammies

         Christmas:
a relaxing day where we spend time with our family at home, celebrating Christ's birth
. have (healthy, protein-packed) cookies & coffee for breakfast (hot cocoa for kids)
. wear our jammies all day, no exceptions. and play Christmas movies all day
. read the Christmas story together, teach the kids something new, invite them to ask questions
. open our 3 gifts & play all day
. have fun, easy, picnic-y food for lunch (leftovers)
. share a Bethlehem dinner (pita bread, feta cheese & olives, grape juice, tomato cucumber salad, dates/figs, honey, fish or lamb) or homemade pizza
. Jesus' birthday cake (or some variation of such) 
   "The cake is chocolate, representing sin. It's filled with cherry pie filling, representing the blood of Jesus, and it's covered with white frosting which represents our new life in Christ."

         Christmas 2:
. begin making that year's Family Yearbook. 


-------------------------------------  The 3 gifts:  -------------------------------------------

Narrow down the focus of your gift giving. 

Enjoy Christmas. 

Celebrate the true meaning.

"The year I found a garbage bag full of wrapped presents hidden under a blanket on the washing machine four days after Christmas, I knew. I knew we were going overboard with the gift giving, because the girls hadn't even missed those lost presents. As I looked back on pictures of Christmases past, I realized that the girls were dazed by present-overload, not knowing what to play with first and just sitting there in the midst of the jumble of gifts and wrapping. This was not good." - Amy Wagner, Crosswalk.com

"Our children love this tradition and share with others the special way we do Christmas. Never once have they felt neglected or that it was unfair that they each receive only three gifts. They have become great at tweaking their own lists for Christmas under the "three gifts" guidelines and have made my Christmas shopping much easier and less stressful. "                                                                           - same article by Amy Wagner, I LOVE THIS! 

* one “gold” gift, the big item they are longing for; Gold is precious and expensive, so is this gift. It's something that child really truly wants and/or is the most expensive gift on her list.
* one “myrrh” gift, myrrh was one of the ointments used to embalm the dead and was said to have been one of the spices carried by Mary to the tomb to anoint Jesus' body. So this gift is for their body, such as clothing, special soaps or lotions, perfume; 
* one “frankincense” gift, for their spiritual growth, is a gift that will draw the recipient closer to God * - 3 gifts for Christmas


-OR-  need, read, want-OR-  Body (clothes), Mind (toy), Soul (devotion)-OR-  Need, Want, From Sibling (so they learn to give gifts to others)

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Starting family traditions

 It may sound strange, but Christmas traditions don't have to be … well … traditional. You can start new activities that bring meaning to your holidays and build a legacy for your family. Perhaps you came from a family of non-believers, and you have never celebrated traditions that were based on Christ. Or perhaps you have found that your current traditions have no meaning for your family. This year, we have compiled 10 ideas for new traditions, some from FamilyLife and some from our readers.

1. What Does God Want for Christmas? The Christmas holiday is really just a part of the gospel story—God came as the man, Jesus, in the flesh to be the perfect sacrifice for our sins. Jesus' birth signifies God's grace and love for His people. FamilyLife has developed an interactive nativity set that not only tells the story of the birth of Christ, but also presents the gospel to children.
This resource, What God Wants for Christmas, can be used in your own family, in Sunday school classes, or as an outreach for neighborhood Christmas parties. 

2. Use decorations to tell about the entire life of Christ. Christmas is a time that usually emphasizes the birth of Jesus, but decorations can also celebrate the remainder of His life on earth. In addition to the basic nativity set, angels, and stars, you may want to include crosses and verses that talk about the life of Jesus. 

3. Fast a meal. In America, Christmas includes a large focus on food. This year, during the week before Christmas, give up a meal and pray during that time for the poor, hungry, and spiritually lost in the world. 

4. Watch a movie that remembers the life of Christ. There are several good films that focus on the birth, death, and life of Christ. We recommend Jesus of Nazareth, the film, Jesus, or for mature audiences, The Passion of the Christ. Or for a change of pace, try Ben Hur, a movie that begins with Jesus' birth and ends with His death, and tells the story of a man who was transformed by His love and forgiveness.
By watching movies that focus on other aspects of the life of Jesus, the Christmas celebration of His birth is put into proper perspective. This can be an excellent opportunity to talk to your children about why Christ had to come in the form of a child. 

5. Share stories about how God has worked in your life. Have you ever told your children the story of your salvation? How about your spouse? While the family is together during the holidays, use the time to share your personal stories about faith, redemption, and life change. Also, reflect on the previous year and talk about how you have grown in your faith individually and as a family.

Caleb's 10th week of life

December 10, 2013

... and there are days when you're just wondering if you're doing this whole mom (parent) thing right.

You look at your little boy (or girl) and think 'how perfect are they?', and you believe making them is the only thing you've ever done right. Of course you realize that God, more so than yourself, made them perfect and whole, not you. God knew of your child long ago and has his future safely secured. 
As intimidating as it can feel to be so responsible for such a perfect, precious life, we need not worry but instead pray.
Unfortunately, the emotional state you're in is hard to take captive and your heart begins to ache... 

Good days and less-good days. This new parent thing is a ride!











December 11, 2013

Not too thrilled to be going for a stroller
ride in the cold weather. He'll thank me once
he's sleeping though!

Today I am so thankful for Caleb's grandma in Germany who will come spend time with him while I get my sweat on and errands done, so then I can come home missing him, even more in love than I was when I left him this morning.

So now, after a busy morning of just doing some errands by myself, I am home with my baby; nursing and cuddling and I can't think of a more perfect day :)

December 14, 2013

SATURDAY!!! Our favorite family day - no commitments to anyone but each other and loads of Daddy-Caleb time! So much Daddy-Caleb time, in fact, that Mommy usually doesn't change a single diaper on Saturdays. Caleb is SO chatty on the changing table, Jason calls it 'The Daily Show with Caleb' and because I get to watch the show all week long and hear all of Caleb's stories and jokes, Jason doesn't want to miss a single opportunity when he can be there.

 This Saturday we went for a breakfast date in Mainz (the college town on the Rhine River nearby), where the food is fresh and simple, and they have an English menu :) After breakfast we walked into Old Town where their Weihnachtsmarkt is going on to show Caleb what was going on.


After just a couple hours walking around, it was raining and in the mid-30's, we hopped on the train to head home. Then spent the rest of the day in our pajama's, rearranging furniture, and playing with the bebe! Needless to say, it was a wonderfully spent weekend- we feel so blessed to have the luxury of spending so much time together.




Here's an example of how big our little guy is getting: Last night was the third night in a row he slept for 10+hours! It's been so wonderful, but bittersweet too! We didn't expect him to be so independent to soon... We're praying he keeps with it though so Mommy and Daddy can get in as much rest as possible before he starts rolling and crawling around, which is sure to happen sooner rather than later at the rate he's going!